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Viewed majority of my previous 280+ blog posts and deleted off everything for a better year ahead!
It's almost the end of 2012 now. I'll be leaving to Korea in 2 days time and will only be back in 1st December! Many ups and downs happened this year. I'm glad that I actually managed to pull it through all and eventually makes me stronger.
LOVE;
Guys that hurts me forces me to grow up.
Throughout my previous relationships (nothing to be proud of when I mentioned the 'S' at the end of the word), I've learnt many things from different people. To admit, there's really nice guys out there too. But just that I was too young (mentally) to understand the true meaning of love. Hence, I let go of the good ones and stupid enough, cherish those jerks who did stuffs behind my back.
Love is about Responsibility, Trust, Faith, Appreciations and Care.
- Be responsible for one another. Be responsible as a girlfriend. What you've done, making sure your conscience is clear towards your lover.
- Trust your partner, and make sure your partner trusts you too. Every little single actions of yours may prove him right: 'You're the right girl that I've chosen' or wrong: 'this is so unexpected'.
- Have faith in him, have confidence in him. Guys wants their pride (since thousands of years), give him that. Be it in front of his friends or in the public, just give him 'face'. Things can be sorted out at home behind the doors.
- Appreciate whatever your boy has done for you or has given you. Don't take it for granted. Honestly speaking, they don't have to do that. They don't owe you a living either. So ladies, please be thankful. Because good things don't always pass by in your life. Same goes to people.
- Care for your partner. Observe his behavior If found anything amiss, hear him out. Be there for him, be his listening ears, advice him, hug him when he's in tears (yes, guys cry too and it's not something turn-off anyway) and console him with your gentle voice.
I (myself);
The future ahead, dark or bright?
I have many passions, many hobbies and many plans for my life. As the only child since young, I'm afraid of loneliness. But that doesn't gives me an excuse to make lots of friends and got influenced either. I don't understand certain people when they got so emotional through social network and insisted that they hated themselves so badly. If you hate yourself, you'll never learn to love others. So get over it and face the reality.
Everyone has temper, including me. As an #Aries, I'm really short-tempered + hot-tempered + impulsive + stubborn. And with all those negative character of mine, leads to many unexpected things that happened and couldn't live my life in peace.
Sorting it out,
- Short tempered - Definitely unnecessary to be. Learn to be magnanimous and never ever show out bad emotions (sadness, angst, frustration etc) that is not related to anyone you're facing for the day. Those people are innocent ones. Your emotions which eventually lead to facial expression may ruin a person's day.
- Hot tempered - The one who got angry and said nasty things directly to people are actually the real LOSER instead.
- Impulsive - Being impulsive does not means by actions only. Same goes to words as well. Whatever you said to someone that cause hurt to them, they will be constantly reminded of sentence themselves which in fact you may have have long forgotten about it. The impression people had you in may changed drastically. Actions? Well, a smart person uses their brain and not fist. And yes, I sincerely apologized to those who I've hurt physically in the past. I was impetuous in the past. My apology.
- Stubborn - Having stubborn thoughts negatively which is really adolescent. If a person is stubborn, that's a good sign actually. Don't misuse it. Take the stubbornness of oneself to a higher level and BE POSITIVELY STUBBORN instead. Stubbornness can eventually turn itself into determination. It all depends in one's thinking.
Friends;
We may have many friends, but to find your true friend, it's harder than finding a needle in the pacific ocean.
I've realized that time is NOTHING. Whatever that matters, is the heart. The sincerity and appreciation from one another plays the most important role in a friendship. When you realized every little things of that particular person becomes your own matter, every actions of that person seems to be so predictable, you're updated with his or her daily activities, you won't mind spending hours to talk sense into that person and then scold the hell outta him or her, disturb that person freely (based on their character as well) and you got so familiarize with every likes or dislikes of that person. Most importantly, you realized you treated him or her so differently from others.
Yep, you've found your true friend. It takes a person to have true friend to know about it.
No matter what misfortunes that has happened to me recently, I'm still thankful that I have this Ah Hai hottie baby with me all along!
Sammy de Sunny Leongy Leongy.
Nobody is perfect. She accepted my flaws, and for sure I've accepted her's as well.
Through years, we never thought we'll be as close as we are now. Meeting up every night and sending me back home is like our usual routine for nearly a year. We have never ending topics that goes on and on for hours everyday. We don't mind to expose stupid stuffs like having saliva that flew out from mouth/ fell down/pooping/mucus flow to lips/bad hair day/farts/secrets and MANY MANY more to one another. And yes, I truly enjoy myself when I managed to take ultra unglam pictures of Samantha and saved it in my phone, which I threatened her for uploading it in social net work of it. HAHAHAHA.
I'm glad that she did changed too. I hope her determination goes for long and never ever give up. Because I promise not to give her up again (incidents that happened 3 years ago). Even till the very last where she gave up on herself, I'll try my best to wake any of her bloody ideas up and knock her head to the wall to ensure she wakes up to the reality and face the world. Hehe.
Enemies;
They are my motivations.
Having enemies is just like having haters (okay, they are pretty much the same). Listen to whatever they claimed about you, secretly learn from it and change yourself to the better. Make sure when you're 100% different from what he or her claimed to be, just laughed as loud as you want to at him or her for having such low-EQ to condemn people at the beginning.
Well usually, enemies doesn't really bother me so much nowadays. If they still hold grudges against me, I'll feel really sad for them. Hating someone is tiring, and so they should be really exhausted by now. Handling enemies is easy. One word: IGNORE.
Sometimes words may hurts. But don't forget, they are cowards hiding behind screens. In fact, they are the slavery of technologies. Because with technologies, they have the guts.
If you have enemies that hated you so much till he or she wouldn't mind kick the ass outta you whenever they saw you, well, things takes two hands to clap anyway.
So, to people who are an enemy of another:
Stop hating and lead your life. Whatever that matters to that person, just laugh it off.
Revenge is the most silliest thing ever. People take revenge because they don't want to lose out. And it usually happens without an ending because BOTH parties doesn't want to lose out.
Well, if losing means the world to you, you may just perish from this world. Because you'll NEVER win, if you NEVER lose before.
With that, I concluded the title of this post: L.I.F.E
Well, all these is just part of my views towards LIFE.
There's more actually, but I'll leave it to you all to figure it out yourselves. Because that is when you'll truly learnt from it, and understand it deeper for yourself.
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#RBV
Me and Sammy will be launching our first collection from RaisedbyVampires by early December this year. Everything got properly sorted out and I'm glad things has been going smoothly as expected (except that I've lost my nails during this period of time fml).
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[Sneak Preview before launch]
[Sneak Preview before launch]
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Guess I'll only be back here with tons of pictures on 1st December! ;)
Ps; I'm still waiting for my exam results before enrolling the Jan 2013 intake for my Bachelor course.
PSPS; Thank you my little Sammy! I know you are having a hard time to delete all those old photos from Picassa web (900+ more to go despite having you to delete off 999 pictures already). Love you baby! Buy you your favourite Macaroni with Cheese okie!
Goodbye loves.
xoxo,
Vanny Rosabella